How to drive economically
2008年11月17日From courtesy of John Taylor and Helen Taylor of www.fuelacademy.com
1 Drive Smoothly
18 Ensure Your Fuel Cap is Air Tight
From courtesy of John Taylor and Helen Taylor of www.fuelacademy.com
1 Drive Smoothly
18 Ensure Your Fuel Cap is Air Tight
Mom, finally, after all her life, of age 70, finally got to see Europe for 16 days.
I took long time to convinct her since last year and finally she decided to take the trip of faith, pilgrimage to Rome and Lourdes.
The trip departed on 20 Oct and ended on 4 Nov.
The whole iternary are as follows:
Day 1 - Singapore / Rome (via Istanbul)
Day 2 - Rome:
Day 3 - Rome:
Day 4 - Rome
Day 5 - Rome - San Giovanni Rotondo
Day 6 - San Giovanni Rotondo - Montesant’ Angelo
Day 7 - San Giovanni Rotondo - Tru Loreto - to Assisi
Day 8 - Assisi
Day 9 - Assisi - Genoa - Turin
Day 10 - Turin - Nice - Avignon
Day 11 - Avignon- Narbonne - Lourdes
Day 12 - Lourdes
Day 13 - Lourdes
Day 14 - Lourdes - Paris
Day 15 - Paris - Singapore
After a long preparation prior to the trip to teach her how to use my camera, exchange of notes, attentive to some special place of interest, what are the insurance covered in her travel…She flew off on 20 Oct 2008.
Now, she is back and safe and her hope to get her legs and sickness cured did not really work out… I felt she does have some disappointment after submerging herself totally in the holy water in Lourdes and praying for her recovery.
Honestly, I do have slight disappointment as well, but I trusted GOD. I know there is a plan and it’s only that we do not understand; but we will…one day…In HIS Time.
Meanwhlie, she is still excited to talk about the churches, the miracles and others she had seen. WIthin 1 short 1 month, especially this 2008 years, she had many of her dreams come true. I hope she is really happy and God bless my mom.
Was sharing with CW the other day about a 8 young boy. On a fine sunny day, he decided to take some initiative to help his washing his father’s dirty car. As he could not find a cloth to wipe dry the car, he suddenly remember seeing his mother using the wire coil to wash clean the dirty dark pot. Since he know where his mother kept the coil, he reach for it and begin washing his father’s car.
As you had guess it, the car was badly scratched and defaced. If you were his father, what would you do? The moral of the story is… looking at the intention behind the action. This little boy may be naive and do not know that washing a dirty pot is different to a dirty car; but his kind intention is to relief his father.
OK, this is what happen in real life by Marina. Yesterday, CW, suddenly walked out of the bath room and confronted Marina, “Did you unscrew the cap of the bathing cream?”
“Yeah…” Before Marina can futher on..
“WHY! Why did you do that? The soap is very expersive and you pour away of the bottle…”: CW was furious..
“I want to help you because it’s tight and I slipped…”
“Why are you irresponsible…we worked so hard to safe and you just open it and so carelessly dropped the bottle and pour away half of the soap… you did not even tell us…it’s so danger as well…”
Marina stool there with tears rolling in her eye…after about 5 minutes of outpour, CW walked away.
I asked Marina, why did she do that. Her simple answer was, because, the cap was too tight, she want to help to loosen it a little so that CW need not to use too much strength to unscrew it at end of week to top up the liquid. However, she was not careful and drop the soap bottle, as such, half of it was wasted. She did not tell us as it was not part of her awareness that she needs to do so. Of course, apart of the Expensive soap, she was not aware how much it cost (hint…it’s from Nuskin…) anyway, lastly, what she did not realise the danger of slippery of bathroom when the soap is not clear.
Many time, when things happened, it’s not easy for us to be aware of what we are doing, we, as parent, should look beyong what is the intention, or is’s plain playing prank or irresponsibility.
This is actually a back-posting…since I had not been updating this blog for sometime. So, finally, got to upgrade the version to WP2.6.2 in Oct only. As such, I felt there are many things that I had already oversight, or forgotten or “not-in-the-mood’ to blog….
However, I still have some “important” events which I do not wish to forget.
1 of it is certainly our official 1st family trip.
We departed on 1 Sep and came back on 4 Sep. Even almost 2 months from then, (which is now), Kent and Marina still talks about it and looking for our next visit back to Disney.
It was an very early morning. We woke up at 3am and John pick us up at 4 and head off to Airpot by 4:30am. Though sleepy, both kids were full of zest and behalf very well in airport. We had our breakfast before we head off to JetStar boarding gate to board our plane. Both kids were very excited; especially for Kent. He has been dreaming about plane and this is the 1st time, he is gonna be on board 1 real big thing.


Waiting for our boarding, Kents already been looking out the window and cannot wait to board his “dream” plane.
Alas, we board the plane. without long, all of them fell asleep….zzzzzzzz.z.z……

The story continue…
Heard this over radio 1003 last year. However, at that time, my blog were unable to write nor display Chinese character. As such, I had kept it in my PC.
Now, since, I have updated my Blog version, and I wanted to reopen my blog (Have not update since 1 year ago…)
Very nice and meaningful:
“当我老了,不再是原来的我。
请理解我,对我有一点耐心。
当我把菜汤洒到自己的衣服上时,
当我忘记怎样系鞋带时,
请想一想当初我是如何手把手地教你。
当我一遍又一遍地重复你早已听腻的话语,
请耐心地听我说,不要打断我。
你从小的时候,我不得不重复那个讲过千百遍的故事,
直到你进入梦乡。
当我需要你帮我洗澡时,请不要责备我。
还记得小时候我千方百计哄你洗澡的情形吗?
当我对新科技和新事物不知所措时,请不要嘲笑我。
想一想当初我怎样耐心地回答你的每一个“为什么”。
当我由于双脚疲劳而无法行走时,
请伸出你年轻有力的手搀扶我。
就像你小时候学习走路时,我扶你那样。
当我忽然忘记我们谈话的主题,请给我一些时间让我回想。
其实对我来说,谈论什么并不重要,
只要你能在一旁听我说,我就很满足。
当你看着老去的我,请不要悲伤。
理解我,支持我,就像你刚开始
学习如何生活时我对你那样。
当初我引导你走上人生的路,
如今请陪我走完最后的路。
给我你的爱和耐心,我会报以感激的微笑。
这微笑中凝结着我对你无限的爱。
文章择选自墨西哥《数字家庭》2004年11月号”
Yesterday & today, 2 days in a row…Marina LIED!
Yesterday, she lied that she had worked on her copying exercise. She was smart enough to put up a good show by ‘pretending’ she had done the exercise but lost her book.
She search a while, and in the end…admitted that she did not do her exercise.
I was very fury and for first time, punished her to stand at the naughty corner. 阅读全文 »
I met Agnes (蒂娜) last Sat in my church. It’s been a while, maybe 10 - 20 years since we last met. Though I heard she was in this missionary work, I did not make an effort to contact her to find out more. However, with God’s grace, she came to my parish St Anne’s Church to raise funds by selling their CD
I was indeed touch by their work. Especially for their Leader, Bernard, he given up his full time highly paid job and turn to GOD Work. Reading his Bio from the site, he had given up his Car, House and Income, his families are all in tune to support him. Judging from their work, they are fruitful! GOD BLESS THEM!
I have a chance to chat with his young boy, who turn out to be a pleasant surprise. A boy of age 11 but very GOD Loving. I bought a CD from him knowing that he composed one of the songs. I bummed into him again half-an-hour later, and to my surprised, he greeted me: “赞美感谢主,愿主ç¥ç¦ä½ ï¼â€œ which mean “Praise & Thank GOD, May GOD bless you” I spoke to Bernard and praise his good parenting to bring up this kid, and Bernard turn to GOD “it’s all GOD’s grace. HE had blessed us much!”
I have never come across anyone so GOD loving and I sense it, he said it from the bottom of his heart! Knowing they are related to one of my choir members, I found out that they are indeed, not just GOD loving in front of us, stranger, but they practice it daily at home.
I have an urge to join them, to learn from them, their Faith, their Love, their GODLY.
May GOD Bless them!
I am still in shock!
Last Sat while driving back from Novena with my 2 angels in the back seat, I was very tired and I manage to keep awake till Punggol. I approached one of the traffic lights, and suddenly, I just doze off. Thank GOD, I managed to woke up in time and avoid an accident. I thank GOD for looking after me, but did not take it as a SERIOUS message!
Yesterday, at noon, while driving along CTE, I was cruising on lane 1 and when I was nearby to TPE exit, not realising there is a long vehicle parking on lane 1 cutting trees, I accelerated to pick up speed to move up the bridge. By the time I noticed it, I was too near.
Without hesitation, I quickly filtered left, but still crashed into the vehicle. Looking into my mirror, I saw a van was ramming into me. I managed to accelerate while the van jammed brake to avoid second collision. I successful pull over at the shoulder and came down to inspect the car.
My car head light was broken, my bumper badly damaged, my right front wheel was out of alignment, my right side mirror was gone, both my back wheel rims were scratch, and my right body left with a deep cut and scratch from my door all the way to the back.
Thank GOD, I am alive and unharm.
I called my insurance company and they asked me if my car still movable. I tried and it’s ok, but the stirring is out of alignment, so I had to drive slowly and carefully to the workshop.Â
While int he workshop, I recall the accident. If I did not manage to filter left, I would have a solid head-on collision and which would push the engine backwards into my chest might result to chest-rip broken despite of air-bag; on top, the windscreen may broke into pieces and cut me deep. Then, if I manged to avoid the head-on, but not been able to avoid the van, I will lose control and spin or overturn, or worst, broke the bridge barrer and fall off the bridge which may caused my life.
I really thank GOD for looking after me and help me to be unharmed. I still have a family which my kids still have a father, to my wife a husband and to my mother, a son.
Thank GOD again!
After seeing our neighbor having a dog named Orea, and yesterday, during Shichida class, we talk about good habits and good moral education, which have a few sentences about taking care of pet, Marina requested me to get her a pet.
I told her that in the first place, she is too young to take care of a pet, because, firstly, she do not tidy her room. Her table was always in a mess and each time, we pack and tidy up for her, she will mess it up within a few days.
Next, she was given a electronic pet during her birthday, she was excited initially, and now, she hardly play, nor feed, nor taking care of her electronic pet, Fina. Therefore, I told her, until she can tidy up her room and consistently taking well of her Fina, she cannot own one. Else, she will ill-treat the pet and ended up, daddy and mommy is the one that is taking care of it.
She was a little disappointed and accepted the refusal. However, she said if she can tidy up her place and taking care of her Fina, I will have to get her a pet. I agreed and wanted her to set good example to her brother Kent too.
In the evening CW was enjoying her rambutan. For convenien, she took a trash-basket and place it near her, so that she can dump the seeds and hask from the consumed rambutan. When she was done, she left the sofa and left the trash-basket there. Marina saw it and comment…
“Mommy, did not set a good example, she is not keeping the place tidy and clean…” Though, I jokingly replied, “That’s why your mommy do not have a pet…”, I was most surprised for her to comment on it and make me ponder of our action, an mirror to them.
We as parent, got to be careful of what we are imparting in our children.
Today we celebrated Singapore 42th National Day.
42 reasons why do I feel proud to be here…